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Originally Posted by fundiddle
wow... you're an idiot
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To me as a male, if the roles are reversed and my wife is doing a job she loves, making loads of money, gaining lots of notoriety/fame, literally working with her family in her "family business" and she is constantly making the dumb ass decisions about drinking and driving, its ultimatum time.
The household makes plenty of money. No lack of discretionary income whatseoever. If you like to party and its manageable, that's cool. Just no driving there. Always UBER/taxi. Live in an area where there is not any available? I'll drop you off. I'm not available? Pay a neighbor kid to drop her off or arrange for a ride elsewhere.
I may not have explained that as well as possible, but if I love someone and they are making terrible decisions that effect our family, I feel responsible in helping to fix the situation